Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Summer Tidbits (kind of like pineapple)

I didn't spend a lot of time on this blog this summer, so there is much to catch up on, so I'll just tidbit everything.
Seth started talking much more, and he's always surprising us with a new word, and with how much he understands and remembers. He keeps trying to get the squirt bottle and one day he pointed it out to Farris and earnestly shook his head "Mom say no, no, no." He can rapid fire out MOMMOMMOMMOMMOM now, but he still says Daddy the most. He loves turtles, and I spent a lot of time on one page of a book about dinosaurs trying to get him to say Dinosaur instead of turtle. Once the cats showed up cat and kittie became two more favorite words. He's starting to get animals straightened out, but he still makes sheep moo and horses growl. Which I think is entertaining. He would be speaking better, except much of it is mumbled behind his binkie (he calls it his dinkie), but I'm ok with that. He's sleeping through the night, he takes three hour nap (can all the moms say hallelujah?) and he settles into his car seat with it much better than without. So I'm good. For now. After all, he won't be two until October. He's also hit his independent streak over the summer, and does not appreciate holding hands when walking across the street, riding in strollers when he's not tired or being carried in crowds. And when I call for him to stop or come back, he flashes his megawatt grin and begins to tippy toe away. Yes, it makes me laugh, but he's still in trouble.

Joseph has had a busy summer. He loved, loved, loved swimming lessons. He's like a wiggly Labrador retriever near water. His little class had him and two sweet, delicate girls that could just barely get their chins wet. The teacher would be encouraging them to go under and Joseph would be climbing on the side of the pool so he could jump back in. Backwards. Six times straight. For his birthday he got a bike, and it's styled to look like a Harvey Davidson which makes me a little nervous. He loves to ride it all over, including over feet, plants, brothers, neighbors, little dogs, small children. OK, that's a little exaggeration, but only by about an inch. Just a warning, watch out when he's making engine noises and is barrelling right toward you. He wins in Chicken.

Caleb also liked his swimming lessons, but he's a little more cautious than Little Knievel. He especially liked camping, as long as we reassured him there would be no bears. He is an outdoor kind of kid, and I do think he'll be some kind of a scientist who studies nature. You can see those wheels turning when he's outside. He is growing up, though, and some days I think "all boys do that...don't they?" I'm not used to all the pretend killing that goes on in boy play. But I better get used to it, I guess, while still training it out of them. He still gives gigantic hugs and is a snuggler, too. I hope he doesn't lose that in all this growing boy stuff. He was so very excited about being in First Grade this fall, he gets to eat lunch there and stay the whole day, and wonder of wonders, he gets more recesses! His reading is coming along well, and he's excited to sit down with books everyday as part of his homework. He usually reads a verse for family scripture study, and he does that pretty well, too. Maybe not Zarahemla yet, but he's getting there.

Felicity has been growing this summer. She's still a little girl in a lot of ways (she gets the excited like a Lab look a lot, too), but she's older. It's interesting to watch this in between time, and she's really doing well adjusting to her changing ideas and thoughts. She's grown out of most of her dancing phase, her artsy side is now into drawing. She still likes her My Little Ponies, but plays with more real looking horses now, too. I think her favorite times this summer have been with people, cousins or friends, but also with our family. She adores having Daddy/Daughter dates, Mommy and me nights, and she even told our neighbor that she wanted a neighbor night. I guess we need to be more social for our busy daughter.

Farris and I have been plenty busy (this is starting to sound like a Christmas letter, isn't it?), he's been adjusting to a new college at BYU. The Health and Human Performance college dissolved this spring, and with most of the students, he moved to the College of Life Science. He's been busy with everything, including his colleague retiring, moving his office to a new building and getting to know the other advisors, how to work with them and such. We've had plenty to do around here, too. We got a lawn. I know I've blogged and talked about it before, but I'm so happy! Grass makes me happy. And I do mean the legal kind. And we've never had a back yard before, if you don't count apartments. So we've been really enjoying it. Our fruit trees are producing yummy stuff, our grapes are vining wonderfully, our raspberries kind of pooped out, our strawberries are going to get ripped out next year (we'll try a new way of planting), and we've learned to never trust a volunteer squash plant, no matter how cute the little leaves are. They will grow into a monster that will take over your whole garden and stomp on all your other plants. I am not exaggerating. Our cucumbers, watermelon, bell peppers, biker billy peppers (ask my brother) and some of our green beans were all squashed, not even a pun intended. The vines were even growing into the tomato cages. And, they all crossed together so we got yellow, orange and green pumpkins instead of summer squash, pumpkins and whatever those evil volunteers were. Farris summed it up: "I think this was a learning year in our garden." We did get some great tomatoes, my brothers gave me green zebra tomatoes (small, yellow with green zebra stripes), Cherokee Purple (huge lumps of a purplish greenish-redish tomato, but very good. And huge), and these orange ones that I forgot their name (beautiful orange-yellow color and big, too). We planted a Sweet 100 cherry tomato, and it's gone crazy like the squash, we can't even keep the tomato cage from tipping over. Our beans have been doing fairly well, they'd probably do better if we'd pick them more often. And I've found that cats like to chase green beans. As we're snapping them, the cats will dip their paws in, take one out and chase it throughout the house. I keep finding dried up beans in hidden corners. Oh, and in our back yard, we have grass. It's beautiful.
Now we're looking forward to fall, maybe we'll tackle a few projects in the house instead of out.
Well, that wasn't much of a tidbit, it was more like a chunk. But that was our summer, just like canned pineapple.

Cats (not the musical)

I was going to wait to write about our cats until they actually have names, but I'm not sure when that's going to happen. One day a few days before Insane Week began I was watching my kids play with our friends' cats and I commented quite innocently that someday we'd have to get a cat. And later that day Felicity said that she wanted a pet. A horse, really, but any pet would do, even a Zhu Zhu Pet. Which made me laugh and I thought about how we had promised our kids gold fish after the April Fools Day joke a couple years ago. And I thought, yeah, we'll get a pet someday, just not today. Yes, I was just tempting fate. That night Farris called from work asking if we needed anything from the store, he was going to stop on his way home. No, we're doing good. Then he got home with a super serious face. And asked me to come out to the car. I was pretty sure he hadn't been in a car accident, but I was a little nervous. But peeking out of a cat carrier was two kittens, a girl that's gray with a white belly and legs, and a black with white belly, feet, and nose boy. The kids, of course, immediately fell in love, and I have to admit that I love cats, and I've missed having any around. The cats took a little more time getting used to the kids, and found lots of high places they could hide. Once the kids were asleep that first night, the two kitties ran around exploring, climbing and sometimes snatching a bite of our toes. Now that they're settled in they still do all of that, only with more toe-snatching. They are wiggly, playful little guys (err, girl and guy). The black one still has zero patience with the kids, Seth comes up several times a day pointing to his hand saying "Cat! Bite!" but the gray one just hangs limp and lets the kids do all kinds of extraordinary things to her. No dressing up yet, but I'm sure that will follow. As for names, the black cat we were going to name Chimney Sweep (he climbed our fireplace almost to the ceiling that first night), and the gray one we're thinking DC for Darn Cat or Mazie (which I'm voting for). Now I'm thinking we should name the black one DC, because he's the one who always gets into trouble (I could easily call him SC for Stupid Cat) and then Mazie for the gray one. One of my friends laughed and told me that we didn't have this much trouble naming our kids, which is true, although we wanted to name the kids before we left the hospital, and almost didn't get it done twice (It took a bit of persuasion for Caleb to become Caleb and both of us were stumped on Seth's middle name which turned out to be Gavid). But we'll eventually name them, just like I will eventually get pictures of them on this blog. Now if I knew any of the words from Cats, I'd sing them, but sorry, we sang along with Starlight Express, Phantom, or Les Mis more.

Friday, September 3, 2010

A few of my favorite things

This week has been awful, mostly gross and busy, I guess. I've had several crying jags and all that. It could be worse (much, much worse, nothing permanent has happened and it will all be over in the next couple weeks, so it's not that big of a deal), but whenever I tell anybody about it, they all say "Oh,no!" or "I'm so sorry" or "That's really bad timing!" so I know it's not only me being dramatic (maybe a little dramatic). But nevertheless, to keep things in perspective, I'm going to write a quick "few of my favorite things" list and then get back to cleaning and laundry. And food planning/making. And more laundry.

1. How Caleb and Joseph both call gorillas magrillas.
2. How Seth can say basketball now (it comes out ball-ket-ball).
3. Finding Felicity in her chair devouring a book.
4. That first moment when Farris comes in the door every night.
5. How my family (and that includes Farris' family, too) has been so great this week, even my sisters calling from Yosemite (oh, and this will have to include that they haven't been eaten by bears as a favorite thing, too). They've all been, well, A Family!
6. Prayer, prayer and more sobbing while praying. It works.
7. But the biggest thing that is a favorite thing right now is that Felicity is going to be baptized into the Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints tomorrow. (great, here comes that sobbing thing again). I'm so thankful for my Savior! I'm thankful for His wonderful church!

Now, nobody think that anything too crazy is going on, no one is dying or seriously ill, no car accidents, Farris still has a good job (busy, but that's ok) just LIFE hitting all at once and right before Felicity's baptism. Or maybe that Guy Downstairs as our YW pres. Nikki says. We'll make it! We're fine!

Now, where's that chocolate...